Even Though You Are A Quad Problems Still Exist

My name is Jasper and I am a quad and I find myself still having to deal with life's problems.  I'm currently being garnisheed and I have to personally look into the matter.  I got together with my social worker and we're going to set an appointment with the Friend of the Court.  Just because you are a quad life still presents problems that you have to address.  There may be times though when you feel helpless.  For example; my daughter is in the process of a divorce.  I feel somewhat helpless not being able to give her the support I would like to.  All I can do is talk to her and give her my advice.  I wish I could do more but my condition won't allow it.  But I keep a good attitude and realize that I must adapt to the situation.  Just because we're quads life doesn't change for us.  We have to change for it.  Be strong, keep a good attitude and just do the best you can.  Good bye, my name is Jasper.   

Attitude, Attitude, Attitude!

Hi, my name is Jasper and I'm a quadriplegic.  Today I went out with a group of people and we planted flowers in vases.  It may not seem like much to some people but to someone who is severely injured the task can be very rewarding.  I feel that if you're an injured person, if you body's crippled or you have some kind of head injury it's very important you keep your chin up and have a positive attitude about life.  Don't look at your circumstance, the condition you're in, rather focus on your recovery and future goals.  Your spirit is what enables you to move forward, forgetting the past and boldly facing your future.  I enjoy what I did today.  Just planting a simple flower or getting out of bed just to go play Bingo or a card game, visit someone, better yet pray for someone in your facility or home.  Having that positive attitude and Godly spirit will enable you to do things with zeal.  The point I've tried to make is that your life is not over.  I go on trips to the movies, to the art institute, fishing, bowling and even attended a dance and I did it all being confined to a wheelchair.  Attitude...have a positive attitude and see where it takes you.  My name is Jasper and I thank you for reading. 

The Quadriplegic in NA

Hello my name is Jasper and I had to make a lot of adjustments in my life not only being a quad, I'm aslo a recovering addict.  My clean date is also the same date as my accident.  I recently went to a meeting when I celebrated my 3 years clean.  I want you to understand that we may have akward conditions, people still love and embrace us as long as we keep a positive attitude and continue on with our lives, people will support us.  I went to that meeting not knowing exactly what to expect, but it turned out to be a beautiful experience.  They bought a huge cake, pizza, ice cream and we celebrated and hugged each other and they gave me so much support.  It was awesome to me that so many people poured out their love for me.  I was touched.  So I want you to know that things change in our lives but some things remain the same.  Love, caring, support, and God working in our lives.  So I said all that to say this, it's very important that we look at life with the same zeal that we had before our tragady.  God works through people and he touches hearts and moved people to love us unconditionally.  Keep your head up and embrace life boldly and it will work for you just as it's working for me.  Love you.  I'm Jasper and this was my expereience I've shared with you.