Hello, my name is Jasper and I am a quad. I have been married twice in my life. My first marriage lasted 22 years. So, I feel as though I know something about the matter. But, I have never been married while being in a wheel chair. I was wondering to myself, what would that be like. I am sure all of the love, patience and all the other emotions are involved. But, still I wonder what it would like. It has to be something different. I would imagine it would take sometime for me to get over the feeling of being inadequate. For a man not being able to physically do things for his spouse. It weighs heavy on his mind. I believe as men, we are sort of trained as toddlers to be caring and nurturing towards our female counterparts. When you are in a position where you can't physically touch your spouse or being able to protect her if need be somehow makes you feel a little less than a man. So first, I believe for me I would have to get past that hurdle first. Not being able to do physical things for your spouse is like when a woman looses all her hair or looses a breast to cancer. It may not make a difference to her husband, but it is something that she has to mentally get past. So, since this is something that I have never experienced for myself I would appreciate some feedback.
Thank you,
this is Jasper
No comments:
Post a Comment